"I think honestly, some people who think they're gay, they're confused. People can misconstrue closeness for love. People can feel connected, they bond.''That's what the great Stevie Wonder said about Frank Ocean's admission of, er, what did he admish to?., anyway about Frank Ocean coming out— no, he didn't really do that. About Frank Ocean saying that he has been in love with another man.
And then Wonder took it back and said love is love, etc. Which it is of course. But what exactly was Wonder retracting? If there has ever been a less outed outing then Ocean's, I don't know what it is. Ocean sounds more than confused, he sounds bewildered. What the hell was he talking about it.
Look at it this way: if Ocean's sexuality is none of my business, don't bring it up. But if Ocean wants to bring it up, don't be so damn nebulous. He is either:
1) Gay
2) Bi
3) Straight.
Cmon Frank, pick a number.
However, given how Frank came out, Stevie Wonder made a pretty smart suggestion, people can mistake sexual love for emotional love, and since Ocean has such a difficult time spelling out his feelings, maybe confused is exactly what it is.I have a close friend who changed his mind twice, there is nothing WRONG with that, there is also nothing wrong in my suggesting he was confused.