I've written about how promiscuity is not a moral issue, how if you are not in a monogamous relationship there is nothing immoral about having different sex partners.
And there isn't.
But there might be a mental question, there might be an inability to enjoy the lack of intimacy.
I've always felt that this was essentially a female problem, because I don't suffer from it. But I may well have gotten that one wrong.
In a fascinating interview in GQ (I got it off canoe.ca), Drake sore off multiple sex partners. here is what he said:
"There's just a time where it was like, just getting pussy. Where I was in that sort of 'I'm young, I'm going to disconnect from my emotions and just do what everyone else tells me I should do and just be a rapper and have my fun.'"
"For me as a person, it just doesn't work. I just need something else. The seconds after a man reaches climax, that's like the realest moment of your life. If I don't want you next to me in that 15, 20 seconds, then there's something wrong.
"I'm trying to find the same feelings that I had for women when I had very little going on, which is tough. When I was in my mom's house, I had nowhere to go, no real obligations. My girlfriend at the time was the most important thing in the world to me."
I don't see why Drake can't have guiltless physical fun sometimes and something deeper other times. Is it one or the other?